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2026 Thanksgiving Strength Camp is Open

Young female athlete performing a barbell overhead squat with an empty bar at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, IL — technique-first youth strength training for ages 6–18

TL;DR

Thanksgiving break is five days most kids spend on a couch. Mighty Oak Athletic's Thanksgiving Week Camp turns one hour of each of those days into a real training block: five CSCS-coached sessions, ages 6–18, $50, shirt included, Nov 23–28 in Westmont. It's the lowest-friction way a new family will ever try strength training.

The Five Days Nobody Trains

Thanksgiving break is the easiest week of the year to get stronger — because nothing else is competing for it

Every November I watch the same thing happen. School lets out Tuesday or Wednesday. Practices stop. The travel team takes the week off. And for five straight days, a kid who normally moves for two hours a day moves for none.

Nobody plans it. It's just what a week with no schedule looks like.

Then the following Monday, that same kid shows up to practice and everything feels heavy. Coaches call it "coming back slow." Parents call it "he needs to get back in the groove." What actually happened is simpler: a growing body went five days without a reason to be strong, and it responded exactly the way bodies do.

Here's the thing most parents don't realize. Five consecutive days is also a real training block. It's the same number of sessions a serious athlete gets in a full month of once-a-week training, compressed into one week when there's nothing in the way. No homework at 8 p.m. No game on Saturday. No coach asking for rest days. For a kid who's never lifted, five days in a row is enough to learn the squat, hinge, press, and pull well enough that they never forget them. For a kid who already trains, it's a week of progress instead of a week of decline.

That's the whole reason Thanksgiving Week Camp exists.

What one hour a day looks like

A twelve-year-old I'll call Owen came to camp two Novembers ago because his mom wanted him off the Xbox. He'd never touched a barbell. Monday he learned to squat with a kettlebell held at his chest. Tuesday he hinged with the same bell. Wednesday he pressed a light bar overhead and rowed it from the floor. Friday he put all four together. Saturday morning he did the full session without being told what came next.

Five hours. That's the entire investment. He left with a shirt, a squat, and a picture of himself doing something he didn't know he could do. He's a green shirt now — level four of nine — and he still comes on Saturdays.

Owen is a composite of a lot of kids, but the arc is the one I see every year. The first day is awkward. The third day something clicks. By the fifth, the kid is pushing himself.

Why this is the right week to start

If you've been thinking about strength training for your athlete and haven't pulled the trigger, the honest reasons are usually cost, commitment, and not knowing whether they'll like it. Camp answers all three.

It's $50. A month of membership is $199, so the week is a quarter of the price with nothing recurring.

It's five days. Not a season, not a contract. If it isn't the right fit, you've lost nothing but a few afternoons that would have been screen time anyway.

And it's the same coaching members get. Same coach, same four movement patterns, same twelve-athlete cap. You're not buying a watered-down preview; you're buying the real thing for a week.

The details

Camp runs Monday, November 23 through Saturday, November 28. We're closed Thursday. Sessions are one hour; book any open slot Monday through Wednesday and Friday from 3:30 to 7:30 pm, and Saturday from 9:30 am to 12:30 pm. Ages 6 through 18. Every athlete gets a training shirt.

Buy the week on the camp page, then book your five sessions on the training calendar. Bring athletic clothes and water. We'll take care of everything else.

Five days. Five hours. The strongest kid at practice the following Monday is the one who used them.

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Coach Mike Ockrim, CSCS, is the founder and head strength coach of Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, Illinois.

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Your Kid Has Access to Good Food. So Why Isn't He Eating It?

Your Kid Has Access to Good Food. So Why Isn't He Eating It?
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Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E102 - Your Kid Has Access to Good Food - So Why Isn’t He Eating It?

TL;DR: A landmark 2019 Quarterly Journal of Economics study found that giving families better access to healthy food closes only about 10% of the nutrition gap. The other 90% comes from what people choose to buy. Your kid's kitchen isn't the problem. The problem is the routine running on autopilot, and nobody can change a routine they can't see. That's the whole point of the MOA Nutrition book and journal: your athlete writes down what they ate, how they slept and how they performed every day, in their own handwriting. Within a week the pattern is on the page. Then Coach Mike reviews it with them in person and they pick one thing to change. Awareness first, then one better default at a time. Free for every MOA member.

The Fridge Isn't the Problem

Every parent I talk to at Mighty Oak Athletic wants their kid to eat better. And almost every one of them has a theory about why it isn't happening. The schedule. The drive-thru between practice and the game. The school lunch. The friend's house with the pantry full of junk. Notice what all of those theories have in common: they blame the environment. If the good food were just closer, easier, more available, the kid would eat it.

A group of economists put that theory to the test, and the answer should change how you think about your own kitchen. In 2019 the Quarterly Journal of Economics published a study by Hunt Allcott, Rebecca Diamond, Jean-Pierre Dubé and colleagues on food deserts. They tracked what tens of thousands of American households actually bought at the grocery store, then ran a simulation: what happens if you give lower-income families the exact same stores, products and prices that wealthy families enjoy?

Almost nothing. Closing the access gap shrank the nutrition gap by about ten percent. The other ninety percent came from what people chose to put in the cart. When new supermarkets opened in neighborhoods that had none, residents mostly changed where they shopped, not what they bought. The study is about adults, not kids and not athletes, and I don't want to stretch it further than it goes. But the principle underneath it is one I see in the gym every week. Not one athlete at MOA lives in a food desert. Every one of them has a kitchen with real food in it. And plenty of them are still running on chips, sports drinks and whatever's fastest after school.

Kids don't eat poorly because the better option doesn't exist. They eat poorly because the worse option is the one on repeat. The after-school snack that's been the same since second grade. The bottle of blue liquid at every game. The stop on the way home that started as a treat and became a routine. Nobody decided any of it. It just became the default, and here's the part that makes it hard to fix: nobody in the house can actually see it. Ask a twelve-year-old what he ate yesterday and you'll get a shrug. Ask his parents and you'll get a guess. A habit that runs on autopilot is invisible to the person running it.

That's why the MOA Nutrition program starts with a pen, not a meal plan. Every athlete gets the printed MOA Nutrition book, and the back half of it is a daily journal. Each day he writes down three things in his own handwriting: what he ate, how he slept and how he performed. No app to ignore, no notification to swipe away. It takes about two minutes. And within a week, something happens that no lecture from me could ever accomplish. The pattern shows up on the page. He sees the same snack five days in a row. He sees that the day he felt flat at practice was the day lunch was a bag of chips. He sees the sports drink he didn't think of as sugar. The autopilot becomes visible, and once a kid can see a habit, he owns it in a way he never did before.

The journal also becomes the agenda for our weekly review. Every member athlete sits down with me in person before a session and we go through the week together. I'm not grading it. I'm looking for the one pattern worth changing, and we pick one. Not five. Water instead of the blue stuff at games. A real breakfast on school days. Something in the bag for the drive home so the drive-thru never gets a vote. Then he writes that down too, and the next week we look at whether it held. That's how a new default gets built: one change, tracked on paper, repeated until it no longer requires a decision.

This works at a strength gym for a reason a health class can't replicate. A kid who has spent three months watching his squat go up already believes that small things done consistently add up. We just point that belief at the plate. And the parents are in on it, because the athlete doesn't buy the groceries. When the journal shows the pattern, the whole kitchen adjusts around it.

The study says ninety percent of how families eat comes down to choices. Choices you can't see are the hardest ones to change. So we make them visible, one page a day, and then we change them one at a time. The MOA Nutrition book and journal is free for every member, and I review it with your athlete every week. Bring him in for a free first session and let's put the first week on paper.

Be strong to be useful,

Coach Mike

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Junk time vs. goal time

Junk time vs. goal time
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Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E101 - Junk time vs. goal time: What are you doing with the time you got back?

The point: It's in our nature to chase goals. People who finally get pure leisure (retirees, anyone with a free afternoon) tend to fill it with amusements that evaporate like morning dew — scrolling, watching, tapping. AI is handing Coach Mike hours back every week at Mighty Oak Athletic, and he's refusing to spend them on junk. Free time only counts if it's pointed at a goal. A screen is an amusement. A barbell is a goal.

Don't Fill the Time You Win Back With Junk

I was listening to a writer recently who said something that has stuck with me all week. He said it's in our DNA to work. Not to punch a clock, but to chase goals, to want to get from here to there. A goal, he said, is just a desired state of the world that you're trying to bring about. And then he pointed at the people we all know who retired, finally got everything they thought they wanted, no deadlines, no checklists, nothing but leisure, and became flat-out miserable.

The second half of his point hit harder. Most of us, when we get free time, don't use it for anything. We fill it with amusements. Something makes us smile or laugh for a few minutes, and then, like the morning dew, it evaporates. Scrolling, watching, tapping. Hours a day, maybe the majority of our waking hours, that don't add up to much of anything.

I'm thinking about this now because of what's happening at Mighty Oak Athletic behind the scenes. Over the last year I've built AI systems that handle a big chunk of the work that used to eat my evenings. The website, the emails, the scheduling, the parts of running a gym that nobody sees. It's working. It's giving me back hours every week. And the question I keep asking myself is the same one I want to put to you: now that you have the time, what are you going to do with it?

Here's the trap. The time you win back doesn't come labeled. It doesn't show up as a block on your calendar called "be a better father" or "get strong." It shows up as a gap, and gaps get filled by whatever is easiest. The easiest thing is a screen. That's how a guy ends up with more free time than he's ever had and less to show for it.

The answer isn't to work more. It's to point the time at a goal. That's the whole reason a gym like ours exists. Nobody needs a barbell to survive in 2026. What people need is a place where the desired state of the world is clear, measurable, and worth the effort. Add ten pounds to the bar. Earn the next shirt. Show up three times this week when nothing is on the line. Those are goals in the truest sense: from here to there, with your own effort in between.

Watch a kid at MOA do this. A six-year-old gets a kettlebell in his hands and he's not entertaining himself, he's working. He wants to get better at the thing. The look on his face when he finally cleans the bar isn't the morning-dew kind. It stays. Weeks later he's still telling you about it. That's the difference between an amusement and an accomplishment, and kids feel it long before they can name it.

Adults feel it too. We've just gotten better at numbing it. That vague dissatisfaction at the end of a Sunday where you "relaxed" the whole day? That's your nature telling you it wants a job. Not busywork. A goal.

So this is how I'm choosing to spend the hours the machines gave back. Coaching in person, on the floor, with more attention per athlete than I've had in years. Sitting down face to face with members to go through their nutrition journals. Training my own body, because I'm not going to ask your kid to chase a number I won't chase myself. Time with my family that isn't spent half-looking at a phone. None of that is leisure. All of it is better than leisure.

Technology is going to keep handing us time. That's not the problem. The problem is that junk time is the default, and defaults win unless you decide otherwise. So decide otherwise. Pick a goal with a barbell attached to it, or a kid attached to it, or a skill attached to it, and give your free time somewhere to go.

Be strong to be useful. That's what the extra time is for.

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Young Men Are in Crisis - The Solution Starts at Age Six

Young Men Are in Crisis - The Solution Starts at Age Six
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Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E99 - Young Men Are in Crisis - The Solution Starts at Age Six

Teenage athlete locking out a heavy barbell deadlift, barefoot, wearing a Mighty Oak Athletic shirt during a strength training session in Westmont, IL.

The Bottom Line

Young men in America are in trouble: falling behind in school, stepping out of the workforce, retreating into screens, and struggling to build friendships and relationships. That drift does not start at 22 — it starts in boyhood, in the years when a boy either learns that effort is required of him or learns that it is not. Research on what people value in a long-term partner keeps returning to traits like dependability, ambition, competence, and health — none of which can be seen directly. They have to be signaled through behavior. Strength training is the earliest, cleanest place a boy can start building and signaling all of them.

Look around at the young men in your life. Not the little boys — the nineteen-year-olds, the twenty-four-year-olds, the twenty-eight-year-olds. How many of them are actually thriving?

Here is what the numbers say, and they should alarm you. Women now earn about 60 percent of college degrees. In a nationally representative study of American high schoolers, boys made up two-thirds of the bottom tenth of the class by GPA. About one in nine prime-age men, ages 25 to 54, is neither working nor looking for work. Roughly one in three young men ages 18 to 34 still lives with his parents. The share of men who say they have zero close friends has jumped fivefold since 1990, from 3 percent to 15 percent. And men account for nearly three-quarters of the deaths in the categories often called deaths of despair. Our boys are drowning in screens and starving for purpose.

You have seen it up close, even if you have not named it. The nephew who games until 3 a.m. and cannot hold a job. The neighbor's son who graduated two years ago and never launched. The young man who cannot look an adult in the eye, ask a girl to dinner, or finish anything hard. He is not a bad kid. He is an unbuilt one. Nothing was ever required of him, so he never found out what he could do.

Here is the part every parent needs to hear: the drift does not start at 22. It starts at 8, 10, 12 — the years when a boy either learns that effort is required of him or learns that it is not. Which means those are also the years when the drift can be stopped. That is the work we do at Mighty Oak Athletic. Yes, it looks like getting faster for soccer. It is much bigger than that.

Here is something that makes people uncomfortable, so let's say it plainly. Decades of research on what people value in a long-term partner keeps returning to the same cluster of traits: dependability, ambition and the ability to provide, competence, and health. Now look at that list again. Not one of those traits can be seen directly. Every one of them has to be signaled through behavior. A fit body matters not because anyone is impressed by big arms, but because of what it signals: the discipline to train and the commitment to keep showing up. Competence signals that resources will follow. Reliability today signals reliability tomorrow.

The key word is signal. Nobody can see character directly. They can only see the evidence of it. A 16-year-old has no resources yet. What he has is behavior, and behavior is the signal.

Think about what a young man is actually broadcasting when he trains three days a week for two years. He is telling the world he shows up week after week, in season and out, whether anyone is watching or not. He can do hard things nobody is making him do. He can delay the reward. He can be told he is doing it wrong and fix it instead of quitting. He can take care of the one body he has been given. None of that is about muscle. All of it is about who he is becoming.

Now flip it around. The 22-year-old who orders another round at midnight when he has something important in the morning is signaling too. He is telling everyone in the room that the next day's obligations lose to tonight's fun. People notice. They may not say it out loud, but they file it away. The young man who says "I've got an early morning" and goes home is signaling something scarce. He is showing that he is the kind of person who will have something to offer later because he is protecting what matters now.

That decision does not appear out of nowhere at 22. It gets built somewhere. In our experience, it gets built at 8, and 12, and 15, in a room where a kid learns that the squat does not care how he feels today, and that the only way through is to do the work anyway.

This is why our whole program is built on the Death Resistant framework: Recovery, then Movement, then Nutrition. Recovery comes first because a young man who learns to sleep, to rest, and to make the right call when nobody is checking is learning the same skill that will make him someone others can rely on. Movement means barbells, kettlebells, and bodyweight, every session, starting at age six. Nutrition is the daily proof that he can take care of himself without being told. The MOA Nutrition journal is not a diet. It is a discipline log.

It is also why we use a nine-level shirt progression. A kid cannot buy the next shirt. He earns it by hitting real, measurable standards. When a young man walks into a gym, a school, or a tryout wearing a shirt he earned, he is wearing proof of every session it took to get it. That is the most honest signal there is.

So yes, your son will get faster on the soccer field. He will also, quietly and without anyone announcing it, become the kind of young man that good coaches want on their roster, good teachers want in their classroom, and good people want in their life. The crisis facing young men is real. It is also not inevitable. It gets stopped one required rep, one earned shirt, one disciplined boy at a time.

Be strong to be useful. That has always been the point. The strength is just how we get there.

Fact-check

  • ~60% of college degrees: NCES/IPEDS 2023–24 (59.7% of associate's through doctoral; 58.3% of bachelor's alone)

  • Two-thirds of bottom GPA decile: NCES HSLS:09, Smith & Reeves analysis (2025) — scope is a nationally representative high-school cohort

  • 1 in 9 prime-age men out of labor force: BLS CPS, July 2026 (10.8% of men 25–54); includes disability, caregiving, school — avoid "gave up looking"

  • 1 in 3 young men living with parents: U.S. Census CPS 2022 (32.8% of men 18–34 living as child of householder)

  • No close friends 3% → 15%: Gallup 1990 vs. Survey Center on American Life 2021; different survey modes, not a perfect time series

  • ~Three-quarters of deaths of despair: CDC/NVSS 2024 — men were 79.8% of suicide deaths, 69.4% of overdose deaths, ~70.4% of alcohol-induced deaths; "deaths of despair" is not an official CDC category

  • Mate-preference framing follows Buss (1989) and Shackelford, Schmitt & Buss (2005); the fitness-signals-discipline link is presented as our argument, not a research finding

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Does Strength Training Make Kids Faster?

Young athlete sprinting faster after strength training with squats and deadlifts at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont IL
Want a Faster Kid?
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Key Takeaways

  • Yes — speed is a strength skill. Sprinting is force pushed into the ground, and stronger legs and hips produce more force.

  • Research on young athletes shows strength training improves sprint times, jump height, and change of direction.

  • Ladders and cone drills make feet busier, not faster. Squats, deadlifts, and sprinting itself build real speed.

  • Speed gains show up within one to two training blocks — and they transfer to every sport.

Does Strength Training Make Kids Faster?

Every parent of a young athlete eventually asks it: how do I make my kid faster? And an entire industry has an answer ready — speed camps, agility ladders, parachutes, cones arranged in clever patterns.

Here's the answer nobody's selling: yes, strength training makes kids faster. In fact, it's the most reliable speed program there is.

What speed actually is

Watch a sprinter in slow motion. Speed isn't fast feet — it's force. Every stride is a violent push into the ground, and the harder an athlete pushes, the farther and faster the ground sends them forward. Physics does the rest.

That means the question "how do I get faster?" is really the question "how do I push harder?" And the answer to that one has been settled for decades: get stronger. Squats, deadlifts, and power cleans train the exact muscles — glutes, hamstrings, quads, core — that drive every sprint stride.

What the research shows

Studies on youth athletes consistently find that strength and resistance training improves sprint speed, jump height, and change-of-direction ability. Stronger young athletes accelerate faster, cut harder, and reach top speed sooner than their weaker teammates. This holds across sports — soccer, football, basketball, baseball, volleyball. Speed is general. Strength feeds all of it.

The mechanism is simple: a stronger leg delivers more force per stride without working harder to do it. Same effort, more output. That's what "getting faster" is.

The agility ladder problem

So why do speed camps sell ladders and cones? Because they look like speed. Quick feet tapping through a ladder feels fast and films great for social media.

But tap-dancing through a ladder teaches you to take small, fast, weak steps — the opposite of sprinting, which rewards long, powerful strides. Ladders have their place as a warm-up and coordination tool. As a speed program, they're a treadmill: lots of motion, no destination.

The formula that actually works has two ingredients: get stronger in the weight room, and sprint — actually sprint, at full effort, with full recovery between runs. Strength builds the engine. Sprinting teaches the body to use it.

When the results show up

This isn't a someday payoff. Coaches see it inside one or two six-week training blocks: the kid who added 20 pounds to their squat suddenly beats everyone to the ball. Parents usually hear it secondhand — "Coach says she's gotten so much quicker" — before they connect it to the barbell.

And unlike a speed camp, the gains don't expire when the week ends. Strength compounds. A kid who trains through the school year doesn't just get faster this season — they raise the ceiling on every season after it.

The bottom line

If your athlete wants to be faster, skip the gimmicks. Two to three strength sessions a week built on squats, hinges, presses, and pulls, plus real sprinting, will beat any ladder drill ever invented. It's not flashy. It just works.

Want to see the engine get built? Come watch a session at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont — first one's free.

Coach Mike Ockrim is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), USA Weightlifting Level 1 coach, USA Triathlon coach, and second-degree black belt. He founded Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, IL in 2013, runs the Sunday Funday Sports youth leagues, has taught group fitness at Life Time for more than eight years, and is the author of Death Resistant, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and MOA Nutrition. He lives in the western suburbs with his wife Carey and their four kids.

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What Are the Benefits of Strength and Conditioning Programs for Children?

Happy young kids gaining strength confidence and health benefits from a coached strength and conditioning program at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont IL

Key Takeaways

  • Properly coached strength training is safe for kids — the NSCA and American Academy of Pediatrics both support it, starting as young as 6.

  • Benefits go beyond sports: stronger bones, fewer injuries, better posture, healthier body composition, and real confidence.

  • Strength built in childhood pays off for decades — bone density, movement habits, and self-belief all compound.

  • The gains that matter most aren't physical: discipline, focus, and the experience of earning progress week by week.

What Are the Benefits of Strength and Conditioning Programs for Children?

Somewhere along the way, a myth took hold: that weights are dangerous for kids. That lifting stunts growth. That children should stick to games and leave the barbell for later.

The research says the opposite. The National Strength and Conditioning Association and the American Academy of Pediatrics both endorse properly coached strength training for children — and the list of benefits is long enough that the real question isn't whether kids should train. It's why so few do.

Stronger bones, built on a deadline

Here's something most parents have never been told: childhood and adolescence are when bones are most responsive to loading. The squats and presses a 10-year-old does don't just build muscle — they signal growing bones to lay down density that becomes the skeleton they carry for life. That window doesn't stay open forever. Strength training during it is one of the best long-term health investments a kid can make.

Fewer injuries, on and off the field

Youth sports injuries are exploding — overuse injuries especially, driven by kids playing one sport year-round with no strength base underneath. Structured strength and conditioning is the counterweight. Stronger muscles and connective tissue protect knees, ankles, and shoulders. Better movement patterns mean better landing, cutting, and falling mechanics. Research consistently shows that young athletes who strength train get hurt less than those who only play their sport.

Better athletes — in every sport

Speed, jumping, throwing, change of direction: all of it runs on strength. A conditioning program doesn't compete with your child's sport; it feeds it. The kid who squats, hinges, presses, and pulls twice a week shows up to every practice with a bigger engine than the kid who doesn't. And because strength is general, it transfers — the same base powers soccer in the fall, basketball in the winter, and baseball in the spring.

Healthier bodies and better habits

Strength training improves body composition, insulin sensitivity, and cardiovascular health in kids — benefits that used to be credited only to endless cardio. But unlike laps run as punishment, lifting is something kids genuinely enjoy getting better at. That matters, because the habit is the prize. A child who learns at 8 that training is normal, measurable, and fun is an adult who still trains at 40.

The confidence you can't fake

Ask any coach what changes first in a new athlete. It's not the legs. It's the posture.

There's a particular kind of confidence that comes from doing something measurably hard — adding five pounds to a lift you couldn't do six weeks ago, or hitting your first real chin-up. It can't be given, purchased, or faked. It's earned in reps. Kids carry that earned confidence out of the gym and into classrooms, tryouts, and friendships. For many of them, it's the first place they learn that effort reliably turns into results.

Discipline that transfers

A structured program teaches things a scoreboard can't: show up consistently, do the work with focus, track your progress, be patient with the process. Those are life skills wearing gym clothes. Parents notice it in homework habits and attitude long before they notice it in muscles.

The long game

The point of youth strength and conditioning was never just this season. It's decades out: dense bones at 50, an intact back at 60, the strength to carry your own groceries at 80. Be strong to be useful — now, and for the rest of their life. The kids who start early get a head start that compounds forever.

The window is open. The barbell is lighter than the myth says. And the first session at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont is free — come see what your kid can build.

Coach Mike Ockrim is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), USA Weightlifting Level 1 coach, USA Triathlon coach, and second-degree black belt. He founded Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, IL in 2013, runs the Sunday Funday Sports youth leagues, has taught group fitness at Life Time for more than eight years, and is the author of Death Resistant, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and MOA Nutrition. He lives in the western suburbs with his wife Carey and their four kids.

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How to Help Your Child Improve Athletic Performance Through Structured Training

Young athlete improving sports performance with structured barbell strength training at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont IL

Key Takeaways

  • More games and more practices don't build athleticism — structured strength training does.

  • Structured means a plan: measured progressions through the four foundational movements (squat, hinge, press, pull), not random workouts.

  • Two to three training sessions a week is the sweet spot for most student athletes.

  • Recovery and nutrition are part of the program. A tired, underfed athlete can't get stronger.

How to Help Your Child Improve Athletic Performance Through Structured Training

Your kid wants to make the team. Or start. Or finally beat the kid who's been faster than them since second grade. So what do most parents do? Sign them up for more — more games, more practices, more private lessons in the same sport, year-round.

Here's the uncomfortable truth: more of the sport is rarely the answer. The kids pulling ahead aren't playing more games. They're getting stronger.

Sports reveal athleticism - Training builds it

Speed, power, quickness, balance — every quality coaches drool over in tryouts comes from the same source: strength. A faster sprint is a harder push into the ground. A higher jump is more force produced in less time. A kid who can't be knocked off the ball has a stronger core and stronger hips than the kid trying to knock them.

Practice teaches the skills of the game. But the engine underneath — the strength that powers every cut, sprint, and shot — gets built in the gym. That's the piece most young athletes are missing, and it's why the answer to "how do I help my kid improve" usually isn't another travel season.

What "structured" actually means

Walk into most gyms and you'll see random workouts: different exercises every day, sweat as the goal, nothing measured. That's working out. It feels productive. It goes nowhere.

Structured training is different. It's a plan:

The foundation is four movement patterns — squat, hinge, press, and pull. Master those and you've covered nearly everything a young body needs to do in any sport.

Progress happens in measured steps. At Mighty Oak Athletic, athletes move through nine cumulative six-week programs. Every session builds on the last. Every athlete knows what they lifted last week and what the target is this week. When the number on the bar goes up over months, the kid on the field is faster, more powerful, and harder to push around. And they can see the proof in their own logbook — which is where athletic confidence actually comes from.

Frequency stays sane. Two to three sessions a week, about an hour each, is plenty for a student athlete who also has practices, games, homework, and a life. Consistency over months beats intensity over weeks — every single time.

Start with the movements, not the weight

Structured doesn't mean heavy on day one. Young athletes earn the barbell by mastering the movement first — bodyweight squats before back squats, hip hinges before deadlifts. A good program (and a good coach) progresses load only as fast as technique allows. That's how kids as young as 6 train safely, and it's why the research from the NSCA and the American Academy of Pediatrics supports properly coached strength training for children.

The two multipliers: recovery and nutrition

Training is the stimulus. Growth happens afterward — in sleep and at the dinner table. A young athlete who trains hard but sleeps six hours and skips breakfast is spinning their wheels. The most underrated performance upgrades in youth sports are a consistent bedtime and real food. Strength is built in the gym, but it's cemented in recovery.

What you can do this week

Ask your child's current program one question: "What's the plan?" If the answer is a real progression — written down, measured, building toward something — you've found structure. If the answer is a shrug and another scrimmage, your athlete is leaving their potential on the table.

Structured training is the long game: stronger at 10, faster at 14, durable at 17, and still training at 40. Be strong to be useful — for the season, and for life.

Want to see what structure looks like? Watch a session at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont. The first one's free.

Coach Mike Ockrim is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), USA Weightlifting Level 1 coach, USA Triathlon coach, and second-degree black belt. He founded Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, IL in 2013, runs the Sunday Funday Sports youth leagues, has taught group fitness at Life Time for more than eight years, and is the author of Death Resistant, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and MOA Nutrition. He lives in the western suburbs with his wife Carey and their four kids.

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What Qualifications Should a Youth Strength Coach Actually Have?

Youth strength coach teaching a young athlete proper squat technique at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont IL

Key Takeaways

  • Look for a CSCS (Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist) — the gold-standard credential from the NSCA, requiring a bachelor's degree and a rigorous exam.

  • Ask how long they've coached KIDS, not just adults. Coaching a 7-year-old is a different skill than coaching a 27-year-old.

  • Watch a session before you sign up. Good coaches teach technique first and add weight second.

  • A free trial session is a green flag — confident coaches let their coaching sell itself.

What Qualifications Should You Look For in a Youth Strength and Conditioning Coach?

You wouldn't hand your car keys to someone who watched a few driving videos. So why do so many parents hand their kids to trainers whose only credential is a weekend certificate and a nice Instagram page?

Here's the problem: "trainer" is not a protected title. Anyone can print business cards tomorrow. That's why knowing what to look for matters — especially when the athlete is 8 years old and still learning how their body moves.

Start with the letters: CSCS

The credential that matters most is the CSCS — Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist — issued by the National Strength and Conditioning Association. It's not a weekend course. It requires a bachelor's degree, a demanding exam covering exercise science and program design, and ongoing continuing education to keep it.

Plenty of certifications exist. Most take a weekend. The CSCS takes years of preparation. When a coach holds one, it tells you they treat this as a profession, not a side hustle.

Other credentials worth respecting: USA Weightlifting certifications (for teaching the barbell lifts properly) and sport-specific coaching credentials. Stack them together and you're looking at someone who has invested seriously in their craft.

Experience with kids — not just experience

Here's what the certificate can't tell you: whether the coach can actually coach children.

A great adult trainer can be a terrible kids' coach. Kids need shorter instructions, more patience, more play, and a coach who can tell the difference between "I'm tired" and "I'm bored." They need someone who knows that a 6-year-old learning to squat is doing something completely different than a 16-year-old preparing for high school sports — even if the movement looks the same.

Ask the question directly: How many years have you coached athletes under 18? How young do you start? What does a session for a 7-year-old look like versus a 14-year-old? A qualified youth coach answers those questions immediately and specifically. An unqualified one changes the subject.

Watch how they teach

Before you commit, watch a session. You're looking for three things.

First, technique before load. Kids should master the movement — squat, hinge, press, pull — with light weight or bodyweight before anything heavy touches their hands. If you see kids straining under weights with sloppy form while a coach scrolls their phone, walk out.

Second, progression with a plan. Ask the coach how athletes advance. There should be a real answer — structured programs that build in measured steps, not random daily workouts. Training is a calculated path. Working out is just sweating.

Third, the room itself. Are kids engaged? Are they being corrected kindly and specifically? Does the coach know every kid's name? Culture is a qualification too.

The free trial test

One more green flag: a free trial session. Coaches who are confident in their program let you see it before you pay for it. A hard sell, pressure tactics, or long-term contracts before your child has ever set foot in the gym — those are the marks of a business protecting itself, not a coach protecting your kid.

The long game

The right coach isn't building your child for next season. They're building them for the next forty years — strong bones, confident movement, and a relationship with training that lasts long after the last youth game ends. Be strong to be useful. That's the standard. Find a coach who holds it.

If you're in the western Chicago suburbs, come watch a session at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont. First one's free — because it should be.

Coach Mike Ockrim is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), USA Weightlifting Level 1 coach, USA Triathlon coach, and second-degree black belt. He founded Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, IL in 2013, runs the Sunday Funday Sports youth leagues, has taught group fitness at Life Time for more than eight years, and is the author of Death Resistant, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and MOA Nutrition. He lives in the western suburbs with his wife Carey and their four kids.

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Before the Scholarship, Before Varsity, There Was a Kid Learning to Deadlift

Every Mighty Oak Starts as a Tiny Acorn: From a 12-Pound Deadlift to 355
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Key Takeaways (TL;DR)

A viral-worthy transformation — a 6-year-old deadlifting 12 pounds becoming an 18-year-old college football player pulling 355 — isn't about the weights. It's about the 12 years of consistency in between.

The best question parents can ask isn't "How fast can my child get stronger?" It's "What habits can my child build today that will still serve them ten years from now?"

The right age to start strength training is before your child needs to be stronger — long before varsity tryouts, scholarships, or college athletics enter the picture.

At Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, kids as young as 6 learn to squat, hinge, push, pull, and carry safely — building patience, focus, and confidence along with strength.

The strongest athletes aren't the ones who started lifting the heaviest. They're the ones who started building the earliest.

Every Mighty Oak Starts as a Tiny Acorn

One of my favorite videos we've ever filmed starts with a six-year-old.

He's standing over a 12-pound weight. A yoga block sits beneath it so he can practice the correct starting position. The lift isn't heavy. It isn't impressive by social media standards. No one is going to mistake him for a college athlete.

And that's exactly the point.

The video ends with an eighteen-year-old college football player confidently deadlifting 355 pounds.

Most people see the beginning and the end.

We see everything in between.

Thousands of reps. Hundreds of training sessions. Small improvements nobody noticed because they happened one day at a time.

The world celebrates the 355-pound deadlift. We celebrate the 12-pound one just as much.

Because the first lift is where the second one begins.

The Question Parents Ask — and the Better One

Too often, parents want to know how quickly their child can become stronger, faster, or more athletic. They ask which program produces the biggest results in the shortest amount of time.

They're asking the wrong question.

The better question is: What habits can my child build today that will still serve them ten years from now?

Strength isn't built in a weekend. Confidence isn't built in a weekend. Discipline isn't built in a weekend.

Those things grow quietly, almost invisibly, until one day everyone notices what years of consistency have created.

That's how an acorn becomes an oak.

The Weight Is Just a Tool

At Mighty Oak Athletic, our youngest athletes don't train because they need to lift heavy weights. They train because they need to learn how to move well, listen, focus, overcome challenges, and believe they can do hard things.

The weight is simply a tool.

The real goal is building capable young people.

When we teach a six-year-old how to hinge correctly, brace their core, or finish a deadlift with good posture, we're not just coaching a movement. We're teaching patience. We're teaching attention to detail. We're teaching that doing something well matters more than doing it fast.

Those lessons compound.

Year after year, they become stronger bodies, more resilient minds, and confident young adults. Strong to be useful — in sports, in school, and in life.

When Should a Child Start Strength Training?

People often ask us, "What's the right age to start strength training?"

Our answer is simple: The best time to start isn't when your child needs to get stronger. It's before they need to.

Long before scholarships, varsity teams, or college athletics enter the picture, there is a child learning how to squat, push, pull, carry, and pick something up safely from the floor.

That's where athletic development really begins.

The strongest athletes aren't usually the ones who started lifting the heaviest. They're the ones who started building the earliest.

Plant the Seed

The six-year-old in the video isn't trying to become an eighteen-year-old overnight.

He's simply becoming a little better than he was yesterday.

That's enough.

Because every mighty oak starts as a tiny acorn.

Plant the seed. Protect it. Be patient. Trust the process.

One day, you'll look back and realize the 355-pound deadlift started with a child, a 12-pound weight, and a yoga block.

Ready to plant the seed? Mighty Oak Athletic coaches young athletes ages 6–18 in Westmont, serving families across DuPage County — including Downers Grove, Clarendon Hills, Hinsdale, Darien, and Oak Brook. Every athlete's journey starts the same way ours does: with a single session.

Infographic showing a 12-year youth strength training journey from a 6-year-old's 12-lb deadlift to an 18-year-old's 355-lb lift
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What Is the Army Fitness Test in 2026? The New AFT, Explained

High school athletes performing coached squats and pull-ups during a group training session at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, Illinois.

Key Takeaways

  • The Army Fitness Test (AFT) replaced the ACFT on June 1, 2025. Five events, 500-point maximum, minimum 60 points per event: 3-Rep Max Deadlift, Hand-Release Push-Ups, Sprint-Drag-Carry, Plank, and 2-Mile Run.

  • The Standing Power Throw is gone — cut because it produced more training injuries than useful readiness data.

  • There are now two passing standards: soldiers in 21 designated combat MOSs must score 350+ under sex-neutral scoring; everyone else needs 300+ under sex- and age-normed scoring. Both require 60 in every event — fail one event and the whole test fails, regardless of total.

  • The combat standard has had teeth since January 1, 2026 for active duty (June 1, 2026 for Guard and Reserve): failing brings an administrative flag, and combat-MOS soldiers who can't meet 350 face possible reclassification.

  • If you're preparing to enlist or commission: train the deadlift and the 2-mile run hardest. One rewards absolute strength, the other exposes anyone who skipped their aerobic base — and they're at opposite ends of the fitness spectrum on purpose.

Get the free MOA Military Prep Guide. The AFT, Marine PFT, service academy CFA, and ROTC standards in one place — event breakdowns, where candidates lose points, and a twelve-week progression laid out week by week.

Training in the Chicago suburbs? We coach future soldiers, academy applicants, and ROTC candidates in person at our Westmont facility. See the military prep program.

What Is the Army Fitness Test in 2026? The New AFT, Explained

The Army has changed its fitness test three times in recent memory, which is why half the internet still says "APFT," the other half says "ACFT," and the test your recruit will actually take is called neither.

Here's the current test, why it changed, what the scores mean, and how to train for it — written for the people I coach: high schoolers heading to basic, ROTC candidates, and the parents trying to keep up with the acronyms.

The short version

Since June 1, 2025, the Army's official test is the Army Fitness Test (AFT). Five events, in order:

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  1. 3-Repetition Maximum Deadlift (MDL) — heaviest weight you can pull off the ground three times on a hex bar.

  2. Hand-Release Push-Ups (HRP) — max reps in two minutes, hands lifted off the ground at the bottom of every rep.

  3. Sprint-Drag-Carry (SDC) — five 50-meter shuttles: sprint, sled drag, lateral shuffle, kettlebell carry, sprint. For time.

  4. Plank (PLK) — max hold.

  5. 2-Mile Run (2MR) — for time.

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Each event is worth up to 100 points, for a 500-point maximum. Every event has a floor of 60 points — drop below it on any single event and you fail the entire test, no matter what your total says.

Why the Army changed the test — again

Two reasons, and they're both instructive if you're the kind of person who trains for a living.

First, injuries. The old ACFT included a Standing Power Throw — hurling a 10-pound ball backward over your head. It turned out to be the test's biggest source of training injuries while telling the Army very little about combat readiness that the other events didn't already capture. So it's gone. Six events became five, and the old 600-point maximum became 500.

Second, the data said the standards needed restructuring. The Army analyzed over a million ACFT administrations and rebuilt the scoring around a dual-standard system:

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  • Combat MOS standard: soldiers in 21 designated combat jobs — infantry, armor, combat engineers, and so on — are scored sex-neutral and must total 350 or better. Same tables for men and women. The job doesn't care who's carrying the litter.

  • General standard: everyone else is scored on sex- and age-normed tables and must total 300 or better.

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That combat standard stopped being theoretical on January 1, 2026 for active duty (June 1, 2026 for Guard and Reserve). Failing now brings an administrative flag that blocks promotion and reenlistment — and a combat-MOS soldier who can't reach 350 can be reclassified out of the job entirely.

What the scores actually mean ‍

The score questions people search — "is 432 good," "is 465 good," "what's the minimum" — sort out like this:

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  • 300 — minimum pass, general standard.

  • 350 — minimum pass, combat MOS, and a respectable general score.

  • 400–450 — above average, and where promotion competitiveness starts to live.

  • 450+ — top tier. A 465 has had specific policy significance tied to body-composition rules, but that policy has been revised more than once — treat any claim about score-based exemptions as perishable and check the current regulation rather than a blog post, including this one.

  • 500 — max. Rare, and requires being genuinely strong and genuinely conditioned, which is the whole design.

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That last point deserves a sentence. The AFT deliberately puts a maximal deadlift and a 2-mile run in the same hour. Powerlifters lose points on the run; runners lose them on the bar. Maxing this test requires being good at both ends of the spectrum — which is exactly what a strength-and-conditioning program builds and a single-focus program doesn't.

How to train for it ‍

The same base we build for every military-bound athlete covers the AFT, with two emphases:

The deadlift is free points for the trained and a wall for the untrained. The MDL is performed on a hex bar — the same tool we start teens on. If you've spent a year progressively deadlifting twice a week, this event is a warm-up. If you've never pulled from the floor, no amount of push-ups will save your total. Start here.

The Sprint-Drag-Carry punishes the unprepared more than any other event. It's 90 seconds of everything at once — sprinting, dragging a sled backward, carrying kettlebells. Loaded carries, sled work, and short shuttle intervals are the preparation. It's also the event where technique (low sled position, tight turns) buys real seconds.

The plank and push-ups reward the same trunk. Hollow-body holds, weighted planks, and honest push-up volume in clean sets. The hand-release standard removes the half-rep bounce, so train the full range from day one.

The 2-mile run follows the same rule as every military run: mostly easy aerobic mileage, a weekly dose of intervals at faster than goal pace, and strength work underneath so your stride holds up in mile two. If you read the Marine PFT piece, the run prescription is the same and so is the reason.

And rehearse the whole test. Five events in sequence is its own stressor. The deadlift you pull fresh and the run you start forty minutes into a test are different animals. At least two full rehearsals before test day.

If you're a parent reading this

The acronym soup — APFT, ACFT, AFT — isn't your kid's problem to solve. Their problem is simpler and older: get strong, build an aerobic base, and do both for months before they ship, not weeks.

A teenager who deadlifts, carries, does strict push-ups, and runs easy miles twice a week walks into any version of any branch's test prepared. The test names keep changing. What the tests measure hasn't changed since the Spartans.

Be strong to be useful.

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How to Score a 300 on the Marine PFT

High school athletes training squats and pull-ups at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, Illinois, where academy applicants prepare for the Candidate Fitness Assessment.

Key Takeaways

  • A perfect Marine PFT score is 300 points: 100 each from pull-ups, the plank, and the 3-mile run. Choosing push-ups instead of pull-ups caps your maximum at 270 — you cannot score a 300 without pull-ups.

  • The score classes that matter: 1st Class, 2nd Class, and 3rd Class, with a minimum of 40 points required in every individual event. Bomb one event and you fail the whole test, regardless of total.

  • For men 17–26, maxing pull-ups means 23 reps. The plank is scored the same for everyone — max points at 3:45. The run standard varies by age and sex.

  • Pull-ups are where most scores live or die — and they respond to strength training faster than any other event. Grinding daily max sets is the slowest way to get there.

  • Verify your exact scoring bracket against the current Marine Corps order (MCO 6100.13A) or an official calculator — standards are age- and genger-banded and get updated.


Training in the Chicago suburbs? We coach poolees, academy applicants, and ROTC candidates in person at our Westmont facility.

Get the free MOA Military Prep Guide. The PFT, the CFA, the Army Fitness Test, and ROTC standards in one place — event breakdowns, where candidates lose points, and the twelve-week progression laid out week by week.

How to Score a 300 on the Marine PFT

Every Marine, every poolee, and every high school kid with a recruiter's phone number knows the number: 300.

It's a rare score. Most Marines never touch it. But here's what a decade of coaching strength has taught me about tests like this one: the gap between a average score and an elite one is almost never about effort. It's about training the right things in the right order.

Here's the test, where the points actually live, and how to train for each event.

The test, in one paragraph

The Marine PFT is three events: pull-ups or push-ups (your choice), a plank, and a 3-mile run, each worth up to 100 points, all completed in a single session. The plank replaced crunches under MCO 6100.13A. Every event has a minimum — score below it on any single event and you fail the entire test, no matter how strong your total is.

The first decision: pull-ups, full stop

The Corps lets you choose push-ups instead of pull-ups. Don't — not if you care about your score.

Push-ups cap at 70 points. Choose them and your maximum possible PFT is 270, not 300. A 1st Class score is still reachable on push-ups, but the distinguished scores are not, and everyone reading your fitness report knows which event you picked.

For men in the 17–26 bracket, maxing the event means roughly 23 dead-hang pull-ups — full extension at the bottom, chin over the bar, no kip. For women in the same bracket the max standard is lower in reps but identical in points. The exact numbers shift by age band, so check your bracket against the current order.

Ten strict pull-ups puts you ahead of the vast majority of American men. Twenty puts you in another category entirely. Which is exactly why this event separates scores — and why it rewards actual training over motivation.

How to build pull-ups (the part most people get wrong)

The default plan — max out every day until the number goes up — is the slowest possible route, and it's how shoulders get cranky.

What works, in order:

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1. Build volume below failure. Take half your max and do that number in sets spread through the day, most days. If your max is 8, do sets of 4. Frequency grows pull-ups; failure grinds them.

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2. Add strength work behind the pattern. Heavy rows, weighted negatives with a 3-to-5-second descent, and — once you're past 10 or so strict reps — weighted pull-ups. The fastest way from 15 reps to 23 is making bodyweight feel light.

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3. Train grip and the hang. Dead hangs, farmer's carries. Late-set failure is grip failure more often than lat failure.

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4. Test rarely. Every two or three weeks, fresh. Testing daily is spending your training budget on measurement.

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A kid who runs that progression for six months doesn't add two pull-ups. He adds eight.

The plank: free points if you train it like a lift ‍

The plank is scored identically for every age and sex — max points at 3 minutes 45 seconds. It's the most democratic event on the test and the one people prepare for least, usually by holding occasional long planks and hoping.

Train it like a strength quality instead: weighted planks for shorter durations, hollow-body holds, heavy carries. Build a trunk that holds 4:30 under load and 3:45 unloaded on test day is a formality — even with your arms already smoked from pull-ups.

That sequencing point matters, and it's the same lesson from the Candidate Fitness Assessment: these events are consecutive. Rehearse the full test, in order, before test day. Fresh-event numbers lie.

The 3-mile run: mostly easy, occasionally fast

The run standard is age- and sex-banded — for a young male Marine, an 18-minute 3-mile is the historic 100-point benchmark, with roughly a point lost per 10 seconds behind the best-time threshold.

Most people training for it make one mistake: every run is medium-hard. The structure that actually moves a 3-mile time is roughly 80 percent easy aerobic running — conversational pace, genuinely easy — and 20 percent fast work: 400- and 800-meter repeats at faster than goal pace, plus tempo runs.

And underneath it: strength. Runners with strong hips and posterior chains hold form in mile three when everyone else's stride collapses. Squats and deadlifts are run training. That's not a strength coach's bias — it's why the kids we train drop their run times without adding mileage.

What the scores actually mean ‍

The questions people search — "is a 250 good," "what is a 235," "what's the average" — all resolve to the same frame:

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  • 300 — max. Rare. The point of this article.

  • 1st Class — the line that matters for promotion competitiveness and for showing up to boot camp ahead of the curve.

  • 2nd and 3rd Class — passing, with a floor: at least 40 points in each event.

  • Below minimum on any event — failing the whole test. And consecutive failures carry real administrative consequences for serving Marines.

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If you're a poolee or a high schooler prepping to ship: don't train for the minimum. The minimum is a trap. Train for 1st Class from day one, and the minimum stops being a question you ever have to ask.

The 12-week frame

Same structure we use for academy and ROTC candidates, adjusted for the PFT's events:

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  • Weeks 1–4: strength base — squat, hinge, row, press; pull-up volume below failure; easy running; weighted plank work begins.

  • Weeks 5–8: weighted pull-ups and negatives; interval running enters; first full PFT rehearsal at the end of week 6.

  • Weeks 9–11: two more full rehearsals; attack your weakest event between them.

  • Week 12: taper. Half the volume, keep the intensity, full rest 48 hours out.

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Three months of that beats three years of random max-out sessions. The 300 isn't a talent score. It's a preparation score.

Be strong to be useful.

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Can My Kid Pass the Service Academy CFA?

High school athletes performing coached squats and pull-ups during a group training session at Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, Illinois.

Key Takeaways

  • The Candidate Fitness Assessment (CFA) is a six-event battery run consecutively in under 40 minutes: kneeling basketball throw, cadence pull-ups (or flexed-arm hang), shuttle run, modified sit-ups, push-ups, and a one-mile run. It's required for West Point, the Naval Academy, and the Air Force Academy.

  • The events are sequenced deliberately to produce a cumulative loading effect. Candidates who train each event in isolation and never rehearse the full battery get ambushed by the one-mile run.

  • The two events where candidates lose the most points are pull-ups and the basketball throw — one is a strength problem, the other is a technique problem almost nobody practices.

  • Twelve weeks is a realistic runway from "unprepared athlete" to "competitive score." Six weeks is a rescue mission. Two weeks is a scoring exercise, not a training plan.

  • The CFA is one component of the Whole Candidate Score. A strong score won't carry a weak file, but a weak score will absolutely sink a strong one.


Based in the Chicago suburbs? We coach academy applicants and ROTC candidates in person at our Westmont facility. See the military prep program.

Can My Kid Pass the Service Academy CFA?

Most parents find out about the CFA about six weeks before their kid has to take it.

That's usually the phone call I get: a senior, a nomination in progress, a test date on the calendar, and a family that just discovered their three-sport athlete cannot do six pull-ups.

Good news: the CFA is one of the most trainable tests in existence. Bad news: only if you start early enough.

Here's what it is, where kids lose points, and what a real twelve-week runway looks like.

What the CFA actually is

The Candidate Fitness Assessment was developed jointly by the service academies to measure whether a candidate can handle the physical program at West Point, Annapolis, or the Air Force Academy. It's six events, administered consecutively in under 40 minutes, with specified start, finish, and rest times.

The events, in order:

  1. Kneeling basketball throw — three attempts, throwing a men's basketball for distance from a kneeling position.

  2. Cadence pull-ups — as many as possible in cadence. Women may substitute a flexed-arm hang if they cannot complete at least one pull-up.

  3. Shuttle run — a 40-yard shuttle, run as four 10-yard segments with turnarounds.

  4. Modified sit-ups (crunches) — maximum reps in two minutes.

  5. Push-ups — maximum reps in two minutes.

  6. One-mile run — for time.

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Each event converts to a scale score from 0 to 100. Hitting the 100-point ceiling on any of the first five events means you stop — extra reps don't help.

Get the official standards from the source, not from a forum. The scoring tables and full administration instructions live on the academy admissions sites — West Point's CFA instructions and the Naval Academy's CFA page are the two I send families to. Standards get revised. Don't train off a number you found in a Reddit thread from 2019.

The part that gets kids ‍

Read that phrase again: administered consecutively, sequenced to produce a cumulative loading effect.

That's not accidental. The test is designed so that fatigue from event two is still in your arms during event five, and everything you've done for 35 minutes is in your legs when you toe the line for the mile.

I have watched strong athletes post practice numbers that would score well — pull-ups on a fresh set, a solid mile on a fresh day — and then lose 15 points on test day because they had never once run the mile with 200 crunches and a max push-up set already in the tank.

Rehearse the full battery, in order, at least three times before test day. That's not extra training. That's the actual skill.


Get the free MOA Military Prep Guide The full breakdown of the CFA, USMC PFT, Army Fitness Test, and ROTC assessments — event standards, where candidates lose points, and the twelve-week progression above laid out week by week.

Where candidates lose the most points

Pull-ups. This is the biggest gap I see, and it's a pure strength problem. The average high school athlete — including varsity athletes in most sports — has never trained a vertical pull under load. Football, baseball, and soccer build nothing here. The fix isn't doing more pull-ups. It's building the pulling strength first: heavy rows, lat pulldowns, weighted negatives with a slow three-to-five-second descent, and band-assisted work at a rep range that actually accumulates volume. Kids who grind out singles to failure three times a week get sore and don't improve.

The basketball throw. This one is almost free points and almost nobody trains it. It's a power and technique event — the throw comes from the trunk and shoulder with a straight arm, more javelin than free throw, and the ball is gripped against the forearm rather than balanced on the palm. Five throws, twice a week, plus general rotational power work (med-ball throws, overhead throws) will move this event more than anything else in the battery per hour invested. Show up having never thrown from your knees and you'll leave a large number of points on the field.

The mile, on tired legs. Not because the kids can't run — because they've never run it eighth in line behind five other events.

The shuttle run, crunches, and push-ups are where most reasonably fit athletes already score acceptably. Those are the ones to maintain, not the ones to obsess over.

What twelve weeks looks like

This is the structure we use with academy applicants and ROTC candidates at Mighty Oak Athletic.

Weeks 1–4 — Build the base. Three strength days a week: squat, hinge, vertical pull, horizontal pull, press. Load progresses weekly. Add two easy aerobic days — 20 to 30 minutes, conversational pace. Pull-up work is volume-focused and sub-failure. Basketball throw practice starts now: five quality throws, twice a week. No full CFA rehearsals yet.

Weeks 5–8 — Convert strength to test performance. Strength work continues but drops to two heavy days. Add one interval running day: 400s and 800s at faster than mile pace. Pull-up work shifts toward cadence practice — the CFA is done on a count, not at your own tempo, and that difference is worth reps. Run your first full CFA rehearsal at the end of week 6. Record every number. That rehearsal is your real baseline.

Weeks 9–11 — Sharpen. Two CFA rehearsals, one week apart. Between them, attack the two lowest-scoring events specifically. Keep one heavy strength day so you don't detrain the thing that got you here. Mile pace work gets sharper and shorter.

Week 12 — Taper. Cut volume roughly in half, keep intensity. Full rest 48 hours out. Eat normally on test day — real food, at a normal time, nothing new, no pre-workout experiments.

Two things parents should know

First: the CFA is not the whole application. It feeds into the Whole Candidate Score alongside academics, class rank, leadership, and the nomination process. A great CFA doesn't rescue a thin file. But a poor CFA is one of the easiest ways to weaken a strong one — and it's the single most fixable component in the entire application.

Second: start before senior year if you possibly can. A junior who spends a year building real pulling strength walks into the CFA as a formality. A senior who starts in September is running a rescue operation. Both can work. One is a lot less stressful for everyone in the house.

The kids who do well on this test aren't the most gifted athletes. They're the ones who found out what the test was early enough to train for it.

Be strong to be useful.

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Screens Are Winning - Here's How a 6-Year-Old Fights Back

Screens Are Winning - Here's How a 6-Year-Old Fights Back
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Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E96 - Screens Are Winning - Here’s How a 6-Year-Old Fights Back

Key Takeaways

  • Strength is like a well: you dig it years before you need it. Kids who start at 6 build bone density, movement patterns, and confidence that pay off at 12, 16, and 60.

  • Waiting for a problem — an injury, poor posture, low confidence — means starting from behind. Early training is prevention, not performance.

  • The "lifting stunts growth" myth is dead. The American Academy of Pediatrics and the NSCA agree: supervised, age-appropriate strength training is safe and beneficial for kids.

  • At age 6, training means bodyweight first — squatting, hinging, crawling, carrying, hanging — taught by a qualified coach, one clean rep at a time.

Dig the Well Before You're Thirsty

Leo is six. Last Tuesday he spent forty-five minutes at Mighty Oak Athletic squatting to a box, bear crawling the length of the turf, carrying a sandbag hugged to his chest, and hanging from a pull-up bar until his grip gave out and he dropped, grinning, to the mat.

His mom watched from the bench by the door. When the session ended, she asked the question I hear every single week: "Isn't he a little young for this?"

I asked her a question back. "When's the best time to dig a well?"

She looked at me like I'd lost my mind. Fair. But here's the answer: before you're thirsty.

Nobody digs in a drought

Most families find strength training the same way they find a plumber — after something breaks. A shoulder that aches every throwing season. Posture collapsing under a backpack and six hours of screens. A kid who quits a sport because they're always the slowest, the weakest, the last one picked.

By then, the family isn't training. They're rehabbing. They're playing catch-up against years of missed development. It works — kids are wonderfully adaptable — but it's harder, slower, and it started with pain.

Strength doesn't work on demand. You can't cram it the week before tryouts. Bone density is built across childhood and banked for a lifetime. Movement patterns — squat, hinge, push, pull, carry — are grooved most easily when the nervous system is young and hungry to learn. Confidence compounds like interest. All of it takes time, and time is the one thing a six-year-old has more of than anyone else in the gym.

That's the well. You dig it now, quietly, one session at a time, so the water's there when the drought comes — the growth spurt, the tryout, the season, and eventually the long game of being a durable adult human.

"But won't lifting stunt his growth?"

No. That myth has been dead for years — the science just travels slower than the fear.

The American Academy of Pediatrics' clinical report on youth resistance training states plainly that supervised, age-appropriate strength training is safe for children and carries real benefits: stronger bones, better body composition, improved motor skills, and fewer sports injuries. The National Strength and Conditioning Association says the same. The consistent finding across the research is that injuries in youth training come from poor supervision and poor technique — not from training itself.

Which is exactly why how a six-year-old trains matters more than whether they train. At MOA, a six-year-old doesn't touch a loaded barbell. They earn their way through a bodyweight-first progression: squat to a box before squatting free, hinge with a dowel before a kettlebell, crawl and carry and hang and jump — supervised by a certified strength and conditioning coach who teaches one clean rep at a time. Load comes later, only after movement is owned. That's not a marketing line. That's the safety system.

Strong to be useful

Here's what Leo's mom couldn't see from the bench: her son wasn't just exercising. He was learning that hard things are doable. That his body is a tool he can trust. That effort — not talent — is what moves the needle.

We tell every kid at MOA the same thing: be strong to be useful. Strong enough to carry the groceries, help a teammate up, haul their own hockey bag, and someday shovel their neighbor's driveway without a second thought. Strength isn't about the mirror. It's about capacity — physical and mental — that the world will absolutely, eventually call on.

You don't know when the drought's coming. You just know it is.

Dig the well now.

Ready to start digging? Mighty Oak Athletic offers a free training session for new athletes ages 6–18. Book yours at MightyOakAthletic.com — and see what one clean rep at a time can build.

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Stop Fixing Five Things at Once - Fix This One

Stop Fixing Five Things at Once - Fix This One
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Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E95 - Stop Fixing Five Things at Once - Fix This One‍ ‍

Key Takeaways

  • A keystone habit is one habit that triggers a chain reaction of other positive changes — and exercise is the most powerful one researchers have found.

  • Kids who strength train consistently tend to eat better, sleep better, manage screen time better, and procrastinate less — without anyone nagging them.

  • Australian researchers found that when people start exercising regularly, they spend less impulsively and follow through more at work and school.

  • Strength training gives kids a weekly "win" that rewires how they see themselves: I'm someone who shows up and does hard things.

  • You don't have to fix everything at once. Fix the training habit first, and watch the rest start to follow.

The One Habit That Changes All the Others

A mom in Westmont once told me she had a list of things she wanted to fix about her son’s routine. Too much screen time. Junk food after school. Homework pushed to the last possible minute. Bedtime negotiations that dragged on like labor disputes.

She asked which one to tackle first.

My answer surprised her: none of them. Start with training.

Not because the other stuff doesn’t matter. Because of something researchers call a keystone habit — a single habit that, when it takes hold, sets off a chain reaction that changes other patterns in your life. Charles Duhigg made the idea famous in The Power of Habit, and exercise is his go-to example. People who work out in the morning find it easier to eat a healthy lunch that same day. There’s something about your legs being a little sore that makes the salad easier to choose than the burger.

It gets stranger than that. Researchers Megan Oaten and Ken Cheng in Australia tracked people who started a regular exercise program and found changes nowhere near the gym. On days they exercised, people used their credit cards less. They procrastinated less at work. They smoked less and left fewer dishes in the sink.

Nothing about going for a run tells your brain to leave the credit card in your pocket. But the exercise habit seems to strengthen the same underlying muscle — self-regulation — that governs everything else. Train it in one place, and it shows up everywhere.

Now apply that to a 12-year-old.

At Mighty Oak Athletic, I’ve watched this chain reaction run for over a decade with kids from Westmont, Downers Grove, Hinsdale, Clarendon Hills, and Willowbrook. A kid starts training twice a week. Nobody lectures him about nutrition — but a month in, he’s asking what he should eat before a session, because now the food has a job to do. Nobody mentions sleep — but she starts going to bed earlier on training nights, because she noticed she lifts better rested.

Parents will tell me, almost confused, that homework battles have gotten quieter. That the kid who couldn’t stick with anything has now shown up every week for six months.

Here’s why I think strength training is the single best keystone habit for a kid — better than a sport, better than a chore chart.

First, progress is visible and measurable. The bar doesn’t lie. A kid who deadlifts more this month than last month has hard evidence that effort compounds. That lesson transfers to math homework faster than any lecture.

Second, it’s a habit built on identity, not outcomes. Sports seasons end. Teams cut kids. But “I’m someone who trains” is an identity a kid carriesinto high school, college, and adulthood. Identity is what keeps a habit alive when motivation quits.

Third, it produces the soreness signal. That mild next-day awareness in your legs is a physical reminder: I invested in myself yesterday. Duhigg’s point about the salad and the burger applies to kids too. A kid who trained Tuesday is a little more likely to pick the better option Wednesday — no parental nagging required.

So if your child’s routine feels like a game of whack-a-mole — screens, food, sleep, homework, attitude — resist the urge to fix everything at once. That approach fails adults, and it definitely fails kids.

Fix one thing. Make it training. Two sessions a week, every week, with a coach who makes it worth showing up for.

Then stand back and watch what else starts to change.

Black and white cartoon of a young athlete pressing a barbell overhead in a gym as dominoes fall behind him showing an apple, sleep, completed homework, and a piggy bank — the keystone habit chain reaction from Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, IL.

About the Author

Coach Mike Ockrim is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), USA Weightlifting L1 Coach, USA Triathlon Coach, and second-degree black belt. He has taught group fitness at Life Time for more than eight years and founded Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, Illinois in 2013, where he coaches young athletes ages 6–18. He also co-founded Sunday Funday Sports, a DuPage County youth sports nonprofit, and is the author of three books: Death Resistant, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and MOA Nutrition.

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Open Your Fridge: This Photo Test Predicts Your Kid's Health

Your Kid's Nutrition Problem Isn't Their Fault — It's Yours
Mighty Oak Athletic

Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E94 - Open Your Fridge: This Photo Test Predicts Your Kid's Health

Key Takeaways

  • Young athletes don't drive, shop, or earn — parents control 90% of what's in the fridge, so kids' nutrition is largely a parent responsibility.

  • The fix is access: cut-up fruit and veggies, pre-cooked proteins, pasta, rice, and potatoes ready to grab at eye level.

  • When real food is the default, ultra-processed treats become minor deviations, not the diet.

  • Death Resistant maxim: don't drink your sugar. Eat it instead — food's fat and fiber slow digestion and blunt the blood sugar spike and crash.

  • Think of every food choice as a deposit or withdrawal in the Health Savings Account. Keep the ledger positive, not perfect.

The Most Important Piece of Training Equipment Is Your Refrigerator

Last night my son came home from practice with fast food from a chain restaurant. Not exactly a coach’s dream dinner. But buried in that meal was a genuine win: he mentioned that he never takes the pop that comes “free” with the combo. He always asks for water instead.

His friends can’t understand it. The pop is included! It tastes great! And his answer is the part every parent should hear: once he stopped drinking pop, he stopped craving it.

That’s not willpower. That’s biology. Food scientists have engineered sugary drinks to keep you coming back — and when you remove them long enough, the craving fades. The human body adapts in both directions. The question is which direction your household is training it.

Kids don’t buy groceries. Parents do.

Here’s an uncomfortable truth we share with every Mighty Oak Athletic family: young kids don’t have jobs, disposable income, or a ride to the grocery store. They eat what’s in the house. If the food in the house is unhealthy — or if the healthy food requires 30 minutes of prep a hungry 12-year-old will never do — that’s not a kid problem. That’s a parent problem.

If a child is eating poorly or gaining more weight than medical professionals consider healthy, responsibility falls almost entirely on the adults stocking the kitchen.

The good news: the fix isn’t complicated. It’s access. Look at the photo of my fridge that accompanies this post. It’s not fancy. It’s stacked with containers of ready-to-eat real food:

  • Cut-up fruit and vegetables (or buy them pre-cut — no shame in that)

  • Pre-cooked chicken, ground turkey, and hard-boiled eggs

  • Pre-made pasta, rice, and potatoes

  • Soups, plain yogurt, cheese, olives

A hungry kid opens that fridge and the fastest option is the healthy option. That’s the whole strategy.

Ultra-processed food will find your kids anyway

As kids get older, they gain freedom — friends’ houses, team dinners, gas station runs. Parents lose minute-by-minute control, and ultra-processed food is engineered to be delicious. I get it. I love Cool Ranch Doritos.

But here’s the point: if kids have consistent daily access to real, nutritious food at home, those deviations stay exactly that — deviations. A bag of chips at a sleepover is a rounding error inside a diet built on whole foods. It only becomes a problem when the deviation is the diet.

The Health Savings Account

In Death Resistant, we call this the Health Savings Account. Every food and beverage choice is either a deposit or a withdrawal. Not every choice needs to be a deposit — but the ledger has to stay positive. When the account runs chronically negative, the body imposes penalties: fatigue, inflammation, weight gain, weak bones. Being healthy isn’t about being perfect. It’s about keeping the balance growing so there’s room to enjoy life’s culinary pleasures.

Don’t drink your sugar

Which brings us back to the pop. A core Death Resistant maxim: don’t drink your sugar. Liquid sugar — pop, sports drinks, juice, sweetened coffee — hits the bloodstream with nothing to slow it down, producing a fast spike and a hard crash. When sugar comes packaged in actual food, the accompanying fat and fiber slow digestion and blunt that spike. Eating loads of sugar still isn’t a good idea — but if sugar is coming in, it’s better eaten than drunk. Water with meals, sugary drinks reserved for genuinely special occasions.

Stock the fridge. Prep the food. Drink the water. Your kids’ bodies — and their future cravings — are trained at home first.

About the Author: Michael Ockrim is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), USA Weightlifting L1 Coach, USA Triathlon Coach, and second-degree black belt. He has taught group fitness at Life Time for more than eight years, founded Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, Illinois in 2013, co-founded Sunday Funday Sports, and is the author of three books: Death Resistant, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and Mighty Oak Athletic Nutrition.

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Stop Raising Harmless Kids — Strength Is What Makes Kindness Real

Stop Raising Harmless Kids
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Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E93 - Stop Raising Harmless Kids — Strength Is What Makes Kindness Real

Key Takeaways

  • Harmless is not the same as good — restraint only counts as virtue when a kid actually has strength to restrain

  • Kindness means more when it's a choice, not a limitation

  • Capable kids get quieter, not louder — real confidence doesn't need an audience

  • MOA trains kids to be capable, not aggressive: strong to be useful

Raising Kids Who Are Strong AND Good

There’s an old proverb: those who have swords and know how to use them — but keep them sheathed — will inherit the world.

Strip away the sword imagery and there’s a lesson in there that every parent should hear, because it’s the exact opposite of how our culture often talks to kids about strength.

Harmless is not the same as good

Somewhere along the way, we started confusing harmless with virtuous. A kid who never pushes back, never takes up space, never tests their limits gets labeled “good.” But think about what that label is actually rewarding. If a child is incapable of standing up for themselves — physically, socially, emotionally — then their quietness isn’t a choice. It’s a default. There’s no character in a restraint you never had to exercise.

Now flip it. A kid who is strong, fast, and confident — and who chooses to be kind, to include the smaller kid, to help carry the groceries, to walk away from the dumb confrontation — that kid is displaying real virtue. Their gentleness means something because it’s a decision, not a limitation.

That’s the heart of it: self-control is only a virtue if there’s something to control.

What this looks like in the gym

At Mighty Oak Athletic, we don’t train kids to be tough for toughness’ sake, and we certainly don’t train them to be aggressive. We train them to be capable. There’s a difference, and kids feel it immediately.

A 10-year-old who can deadlift with clean form, carry a heavy kettlebell across the gym, and climb without fear carries himself differently at school. Not louder — usually quieter, actually. Capable kids have nothing to prove. The kids who posture and push are almost always the ones who feel weak underneath. Confidence built on real capacity doesn’t need an audience.

We say it all the time because it’s the foundation of everything we do: be strong to be useful. Strength isn’t for dominating anyone. It’s so you can shovel the neighbor’s driveway, carry your own backpack, protect a younger sibling, and someday lift your own kids overhead without your back giving out. Usefulness is the point. Strength is the tool.

What to discuss with your kiddo

If they ever ask why they train, keep it simple: “So you never have to be afraid — and so being kind is always your choice.” The rest they’ll figure out under the bar.

The world doesn’t need more harmless kids. It needs more capable ones who choose to be good. That’s what we build at Mighty Oak Athletic — one rep, one sheathed sword, at a time.

Mighty Oak Athletic trains athletes ages 6–18 in Westmont, Illinois, using barbells, kettlebells, and bodyweight movement in every session, coached by a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist. Schedule a free trial session at mightyoakathletic.com.

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The Dumbest Exercise Your Kid Is Probably Doing - The Dangerous Exercise Taking Over Weight Rooms

The Dumbest Exercise Your Kid Is Probably Doing
Mighty Oak Athletic

Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E92 - The Dumbest Exercise Your Kid Is Probably Doing - The Dangerous Exercise Taking Over Weight Rooms

Graphic of a young athlete jumping with a loaded trap bar, with comic-style callouts reading "Every weight room is doing this... but should they?" and "Teach kids to speak up — the trend that deserves a second look."

Key Takeaways

  • Are trap bar jumps safe? Every landing pulls the loaded bar down through the arms and shoulders — that's why coaches cue "land soft and dump the weight." The research behind the trend measured power output, not injuries or shoulder health.

  • Does adding weight to a sport movement improve performance? The track record says no: weighted baseballs raised velocity a few percent and injured roughly one in four pitchers versus zero in the control group, and the donut bat makes swings feel faster while measuring slower.

  • What builds explosive power instead? Progressive strength in the classic lifts — cleans, jerks, snatches, presses, pull-ups, rows, deadlifts, squats — where the bar finishes racked or overhead and supported. The sport itself supplies jumping at game weight and game speed.

  • What should an athlete do about a worrying exercise? Say one sentence: "Coach, can we talk about this exercise?" A coach can only train the athlete they know about, and the response tells families everything.

The Dangerous Exercise Taking Over Weight Rooms

My son came home from college and walked me through his team’s new lifting program. Most of it was solid. Then he got to the trendy one: trap bar jumps.

Picture it. Your kid stands inside a steel frame loaded with weight plates, grabs the handles, and jumps as high as he can. Then he lands. With the weight still in his hands.

Every weight room in America is running some version of this right now. And I think it’s one of the dumbest ideas in sports.

Gravity Always Wins

Here’s the problem — no lab coat required. Gravity doesn’t care that your kid left the ground. On the way down, that loaded bar wants to keep falling, and it’s attached to his arms. Every landing, the weight rips downward through his grip and shoulders while the rest of his body slams into the floor. Coaches even have a survival cue for it: “Land soft and let the weight dump.” When an exercise comes with instructions for surviving the landing, the landing is the problem.

We’ve Seen This Movie Before

Parents of a certain age know how this one ends.

Remember weighted baseballs? Coaches swore that throwing heavier balls would build stronger arms. When researchers finally tested it with high school pitchers, velocity went up a few percent — and one in four kids got hurt. The group throwing regular baseballs? Zero injuries.

Remember the donut bat in the on-deck circle? It makes the game bat feel lighter. Feel being the key word. When somebody actually measured, the donut made the next swings slower, not faster. Hitters have been psyching themselves out for fifty years.

Same trick, new toy. Add weight to a sport movement and you don’t get a stronger version of the skill. You get a slower, distorted version — rehearsed at the exact moment your kid is trying to sharpen the real one. Jumping is a skill. For a volleyball or basketball player, it might be the skill. Hanging a loaded bar off it is the donut bat all over again, with your kid’s shoulders picking up the tab.

And the science behind the trend? The studies measured how much power athletes crank out mid-jump. That’s it. Nobody counted injuries. Nobody checked a single shoulder.

Ten Seconds of Courage

Now here’s the part that actually matters — because my problem that night wasn’t really the exercise.

My son had shoulder surgery a few years ago. Football injury. Months of rehab, the whole ride. And his strength coaches were about to run him through loaded landings without knowing any of it. Not because they’re bad coaches. Because he never told them.

That was the real danger: silence.

So we skipped the rant and practiced a sentence instead: “Coach, I had shoulder surgery a couple of years ago. Can we talk about this exercise?

Ten seconds of courage. That’s the whole assignment.

And parents, listen: how a coach answers that sentence is the best coaching evaluation you will ever get for free. A good coach leans in, asks questions, and finds another road to the same destination — there is always another road. A coach who rolls his eyes at a surgically repaired shoulder just told you everything.

This is bigger than the weight room. Teach your kid to say the sentence to anybody in charge — coaches, doctors, teachers. Adults can be excellent and still be missing information. Adults can also just be wrong. Your kid is the only person who lives in their body full time, and the only one who can speak up for it in the moment.

What to Do Instead

Get strong at the lifts that were built to build athletes — cleans, jerks, snatches, presses, pull-ups, rows, deadlifts, squats — where the bar finishes racked or overhead, supported, not tearing through your arms in mid-air. Then let your kid’s sport handle the jumping, at game weight and game speed. Strong in the gym. Springy on the court. Never confuse the two rooms.

We’re not training for a season. We’re building bodies — and voices — that hold up for decades.

Coach Mike Ockrim is the founder of Mighty Oak Athletic in Westmont, Illinois. He is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), USA Weightlifting Level 1 Coach, and USA Taekwondo Coach, and the author of three books: Death Resistant, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and Mighty Oak Athletic Nutrition.

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What Happens When Your Sidelines Go Quiet: My Kids Grew Up - Here's What I Do With the Free Time

Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E91 - What Happens When Your Sidelines Go Quiet: My Kids Grew Up - Here's What I Do With the Free Time

What Happens When Your Sidelines Go Quiet
Mighty Oak Athletic
Black, green, and white cartoon of kids in Mighty Oak Athletic shirts passing a relay baton on a track while teammates cheer and a dog with a whistle on its collar watches from the grass

My kids are older now. High school and college. The seasons of standing on their sidelines, of loading the car for the zoo, of being needed every waking minute — those seasons have mostly come and gone. And here’s what nobody tells you about that stage of parenting: it hands you back something you forgot you had. Time.

I could have filled that time with more work. There’s always more work. Instead, I decided to give it to something I love. Strength training has been my first love since before I could drive, and coaching is the way I know how to share it. So when the opportunity came to connect with Special Olympics and work with their athletes — track and field, powerlifting, flag football, softball, the whole spread of sports these athletes train for — I said yes before I finished hearing the question.

Recently, Coach Libby (our Mighty Oak Athletic dog mascot) and I made our way out to see the athletes at their final practice before they headed off to their state championship events. I want to be careful not to oversell this, so let me just say it plainly: it was one of the best Saturdays I’ve had in years.

Picture a track full of athletes running, jumping, handing off relay batons — with more passion and energy than I’ve seen at meets three times the size. Teammates cheering for teammates. Families cheering for kids they’d never met. Every finish line, no matter the place, treated like a photo finish at the Olympics. The whole atmosphere was contagious in the best possible way.

But what got me wasn’t the events. It was the welcome.

The first time Coach Libby and I walked up, you would have thought John Cena or The Rock had rolled in. These athletes were genuinely thrilled that new people had come out to share the experience with them. They wanted to pet the dog. They wanted to tell me about their lives, their events, their goals. And when it came time to coach, they leaned in.

Here’s something every coach will understand. When I gave a cue — adjust your start, drive your arms, finish through the line — nobody rolled their eyes. Nobody said “I know.” They said thank you. Then they tried it, full effort, right away. They wanted to learn and they wanted to do their best, and that combination is the whole secret of getting better at anything. I’ve coached athletes at every level for more than a decade, and I’m telling you: that attitude is rarer than talent, and these athletes have it in abundance.

I drove home thinking about what we’ve built at Mighty Oak Athletic. Our gym in Westmont has become a pod of energy — kids encouraging kids, families showing up for each other, effort celebrated over outcomes. That culture didn’t happen by accident. We built it, rep by rep, over years. And standing on that track, I realized the athletes of Special Olympics have built the exact same thing. Same values. Same joy. Same belief that strength — physical and otherwise — is worth chasing your whole life.

So this isn’t a one-time visit. As Mighty Oak Athletic continues to grow, we’re going to keep growing our participation with Special Olympics and find ways to share what we’ve built — our coaches, our community, our energy — with communities beyond our four walls. Be strong to be useful. That’s always been the standard here. And I can’t think of a more useful way to spend a Saturday than helping an athlete chase a personal best on the way to a state championship.

If your kids are getting older and your sidelines are getting quieter, take it from me: there’s a track somewhere that would be thrilled to see you walk up. You might arrive as a stranger. You’ll leave as family.

P.S. — If getting involved with these athletes sounds like something for you — volunteering, coaching, sharing your time, or even donating a few dollars to help cover the basic resources that keep their sports going — just email. I’d love to connect you.

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Why We Keep the Wrong Scoreboard in Youth Sports

Why We Keep the Wrong Scoreboard in Youth Sports
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Mighty Oak Athletic Podcast S3:E90 - Why We Keep the Wrong Scoreboard in Youth Sports

Mighty Oak Athletic "Building Your Strongest Self" infographic: a coach guiding a young athlete plus five youth-strength training panels.

Walk into Mighty Oak Athletic on a Tuesday afternoon and you can feel it before you see it. Kids are laughing. A barbell clicks back into the rack. Somebody just hit a lift they couldn't do last month, and the whole group is fired up about it. This is the quiet, everyday side of youth sports — no crowd, no scoreboard — and it is the part I love most.

Here is what surprises a lot of parents: kids like getting stronger. They like seeing a number go up, hitting a new personal best, and feeling capable in their own body. Give a kid a clear goal, good coaching, and a room full of people cheering for them, and they show up happy. That is the whole game.

So what are we actually doing in there, under all the fun?

We are building two things at once. The first is obvious: a stronger, more athletic kid. The second is quieter but matters more — a more confident one. A kid who learns they can take on something hard, stick with it, and come out the other side better. That lesson shows up in their sport, but it also shows up at school, at home, and everywhere else for the rest of their life.

That is why we don't measure success the way youth sports usually does. The scoreboard, the trophy, the minutes played — those are fine, but they hide the things that actually matter. (There is a great idea in Think Like a Freak by Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner: figure out the right thing to measure, and everything gets clearer.) So at MOA we watch for the real signs of progress. A kid who couldn't hold a plank now holds it with ease. A beginner who was nervous around the barbell now coaches a friend through a lift. A kid who used to melt down after a missed rep now shrugs it off and tries again. When a young athlete walks out stronger, steadier, and more sure of themselves than the day they walked in — with a lower risk of injury in their sport — that is a win, no matter what any record book says.

Good coaching is how we get there, and it is so much more than calling out the next drill. Our coaches read the room. They know when a kid needs a push and when a kid needs a breather. They turn a frustrating set into a small victory. They make the hard parts feel good enough that a kid wants to come back and do it again — and that part is everything, because the kids who keep showing up are the kids who get strong.

The method itself is simple on purpose. Kids start as young as six. Everyone learns to move three tools well: their own bodyweight, a kettlebell, and a barbell. We build around four patterns the body uses for life — Squat, Hinge, Press, and Pull — and we add weight only after the movement looks good. There is no secret sauce and no shortcut. There is just good coaching, repeated often, in a place kids actually want to be.

All of it sits on the Death Resistant approach we teach every family: Recovery, Movement, Nutrition. Rest hard so you can train hard. Move well before you move heavy. Eat real food. Do those things consistently and a young athlete doesn't just get stronger for this season — they build habits that keep them healthy for decades.

That is the destination we are driving toward with every kid: strong to be useful. Strong enough to help, to carry, to show up, and to handle whatever life puts in front of them. We get to start that work on an ordinary Tuesday afternoon — and the kids leave smiling. That is the best part.


Coach Mike Ockrim, CSCS, is the Founder & CEO of Mighty Oak Athletic, a youth strength & conditioning facility in Westmont, IL, and the Founder of Sunday Funday Sports, a nonprofit youth sports league. He is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS) and a Life Time group fitness instructor with over eight years on the platform. He is the author of Death Resistant: A Common Sense Guide to Live Long and Drop Dead Healthy, 13 Pounds in 30 Days, and Mighty Oak Athletic Nutrition.

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