How To Transform Your Life Through Strength Training: Michael Ockrim’s Origin Story
It was autumn of 1992. I had recently concluded my golf season and was idling away the time before the onset of the winter swim season when I chanced upon the weight room at Fenwick High School. There, I met Ray Moland, a fellow freshman who happened to be the starting fullback on the school's football team. This well-built dude was my introduction to the world of weightlifting.
Ray patiently showed me the ropes, teaching me everything from the basics to the nuances of weightlifting. He guided me through a rigorous bench press routine - seven halfway down, seven halfway up, and another seven to finish the set. It was intense, grueling, and unlike anything I had experienced before. For the next two days, my arms were in such pain that I had to skip gym class, reduced to sitting on the bleachers. However, amid the pain was an immense sense of fulfillment, and I realized I had fallen in love with the challenge.
The understanding dawned upon me that I could shape my own transformation, that the work I put in would yield tangible results. I was in love with strength training. At this point, I was just an average teen, prone to overeating and barely exercising. As I began puberty, it felt like the perfect time to start strength training, harnessing my body's burst of testosterone.
This newfound passion dramatically altered my life's trajectory. From being an unconfident, somewhat nerdy kid, I evolved into a self-assured, confident individual, who was not afraid to pursue his dreams. The transformation wasn't merely physical; it was mental too. The change in how I perceived myself also altered how I viewed the world and my place in it. The empowerment I felt to effect the changes I desired in my life was extraordinary. I owe this profound shift to Ray and that very first workout.
Today, I am a strength training coach at Mighty Oak Athletic, nurturing others on their fitness journeys, just like Ray did for me.